I moved to another state to help her.
My first home was a joint application for her since she couldn’t get a place on her own. (After her divorce)
Now she has a lung disease, trying to get her in a lung transplant program. She was already dropped from one program, myself and my sister both almost lost our jobs (FMLA has been exhausted) trying to get her to her appointments. Mom doesn’t drive anymore. My sister and I don’t have support from any family members.
And to top it all off, she isn’t nice or appreciative. She says “that’s what family is suppose to do” she won’t use grocery delivery services “those are for people with no families.”
She also doesn’t pay her portion of bills, which my sister and I then have to stress about and come up with money.
At what point do I start living for myself? I’m nearing 40, no friends, no dating life. Working 2 jobs.