Mother is 84. Owns two homes. I have been hesitant to move her into my house. I have lived the last 10+ years dealing with the behaviors associated with depression , dementia, and bipolar disease. Accusations, theft, medication abuse, manipulation make it difficult for me to enjoy my time with my mother. I have so much guilt because she lives alone and is lonely but she uses her loneliness and depression every day. I am 52 and work full time. My husband is a dear to her and helps her unconditionally 24/7 all the while she bad mouths him behind his back. She wants us to sell our homes and buy one that has mother in law room or where we all can live together. I just can’t see my husband or I being happy. My sister lives on the east coast and offers no help. Has only visited 2 or 3 times in 25 years. She is a vulture and is waiting for inheritance.