No matter how much my partner and I do for my Mum, it seems like it's never enough. She is in a care home and has some mental health issues and her mobility is limited. She doesn't have Dementia. She's asks for things every time we visit, which is 4 times a week. We are both shift workers, and I am presently recovering from leg surgery with an infection in the wound. Also having physical therapy for the other ankle and my back, so my own mobility at the moment is not great. When we bring her the things she's asked for...we don't get any sign of gratefulness. No thank you, nothing. She admits that she only cares what's happening with her. I'm finding myself not wanting to visit her and I feel guilty.