They have washed their hands of any other hands on 'help' unless you beg them. My other family have abandoned my mom and me for the most part, sighting they don't want to get in the middle ______fill in the blank.
Unless it's something funny and light, forget it.
There is no talking things out with said members of family (moms sister) with all of us in the same room, coming to any sort of agreement. Every thing is said behind each other's back and general is is gossipy and laughed off.
If I do happen to get any help with anything and it just involves me then my mom started inserting that wedge and smearing me as heavy as she can. It gets laughed off or convo cut off. They can't deal with the toxicity either, how do they expect me to Oh, the answer to that is out of sight out of mind. If something comes up, throw some money at it and all will work out.
Have I been used by them all? I think I am ready to get off my pity party and get back to work and take back my life. I'm very frustrated but change is needed!!
Do you have plans to leave?
Start planning your escape now. Don’t run off in a huff and burn your bridges. Get a job and save your money, ALL of it, for a place of your own. When you go, don't make accusations and engage in arguments. You’re leaving and that’s it. What happens after that is up to them.