They are still able to live at home at this point. Luckily my brother lives across the street from them so he checks in daily, but someone has to go to all dr. Appointments with them and kind of keep track of their medication, I pretty much have that role, although my brother has started going to occasional appointments now. I only live 15 minutes away right now, but my husband has retired and I am getting ready to, our plan has been to move south, now I feel like I am stuck. My husband wants to move next year, but has agreed to hold off a bit longer because of my parents, he is not willing to wait indefinitely though. Although my parents are failing, they could still be around for 10 or more years and by that time we will be getting older and we don’t want to miss our window of enjoying our retirement, I don’t know if that sounds selfish. Anyway, I feel like I would be abandoning my parents and I don’t think my brother could handle everything alone. I just don’t know what to do and needed a place to vent. Thanks for reading.