My mom has been in a nursing home for over 4 years. I feel we have "dumped" her there. While she needed time to recover from a hospital stay I feel she is ready to be in my home. My huband does not want her to live with us. Im also afraid because my mom needs help with everything. She is incontinemt, in s wheelchair 100%, and has dementia. It scares me that I'm just feeling guilty and not thinking clearly. That her needs are too great and for her to live with us would be a mistake. It is so painful to accept that my mom is in a nursing home. Any advices?