My 84 year old mother just formally diagnosed with dementia due to Alzheimer's . I went to an Elder Care lawyer prior to this and had Durable POA and Healthcare Directives put in place. I know I need to sell her car and get rid of other things. I have Aid and Attendance paperwork started from her Neurologist and I'm frozen with fear. I feel horrible because I was told this had been going on for more than five years!!! Why didn't I see this?? I don't know what to do next. She's been living with me almost four months and she thinks it's a few weeks!
Anyone out there that can offer some suggestions?