My mother is 78 and asked to move in with my husband and me 7 months ago. My husband used to have a good relationship with her but now has become bitter and resentful. He hibernates in the bedroom all day when he's off and immediately goes there when he gets off work. He knit picks about everything she says and does, " her tv is too loud, she put the wrong trash in the recyclable, she whistles too much, she talks too loud etc.. He doesn't dpesk to her (or me for that matter) except to say hi when he comes in from work. We have discussed and discussed tell our heads spin as to the reason why she is living here. She had to retire due to health problems and then she had to declare bankruptcy. She lived alone in a big house in a bad neighborhood and said she didn't want to be alone anymore. Could she have gone to assisted living facility? Maybe but doubtful she doesn't have much money. I'm just at my mental/emotional end here because I expected more support from my husband. He used to come home and have conversations with me and we'd laugh and talk all the time. Watch our favorite shows and snuggle. Now it's barely 10 words between us. My mother has to realize there's something wrong but she's never said anything. She also has some memory and hearing issues and her "senses" have declined quite a bit. It's like we're at an impasse. I'm so angry at him I refuse to visit him in his bedroom and he refuses to pay any attention to me. It has caused me to become resentful of my mother. I love her dearly and would never ask her to leave I find myself getting short with her and inpatient. I'm at a loss in every way. Can anyone relate?