my 87 y/o mother has lived with my husband and I for 3 years. I feel guilty when I start to feel resentment that I am in this position. We are both retired and he just lives his life and comes and goes and I do not have that option. I feel trapped then I feel quilty for feeling that way. I have 2 sisters who live right here in town, one doesn't even come and visit the other one does, but she gets to go home. I sound horrible but these are real feelings.