My problem is I’m tired. I can’t go to sleep early like I should and I’m up at least 2 times to 4 times a night to help her to her potty chair. If I nap during the day, I don’t sleep at night. I miss my freedom and that makes me feel guilty! We thought we would have more help from other siblings but that has not worked out the way we had hoped. My husband had a stroke this spring and although he is doing well and back at work I’m still afraid there will never be a time for just us. This sounds selfish as I write but it’s the way I feel. I’m not sure what to do to get out of this slump.