Dad received his diagnosis over 10 years ago. Instead of preparing, he spent, spent, spent!!! He is in the hole financially over $50,000 between the house and auto and the woman of loose morals he gave thousands! Now he is declining fast, doesn't even have one safety bar in the house and now according to Dad and the "professionals" this is my problem and up to me to fix so Dad can come home. What?! My Problem?! Funny, where did everyone go now that Dad is sick and not passing out money he doesn't have?! How do I not resent my father for his failure to prepare/... he knew what was in store... gma passed with the same illnesses.