My mom was in a nursing home but now she is at home at our family house and my brother is caring for her. She is bedridden and an amputee due to vascular problems. I want to move her to NJ but since she is incontinent, 250 lbs, and cannot walk. It would be difficult to get a flight with her because the only way we can put her in a chair or seat is with a hoyer lift. She is not on any medication so I would not need medical assistance on the trip to NJ. But if I drove her to NJ, I guess I would have to stop at hospitals on the 18-hour drive to have them change her underwear. What would you suggest I do to get her to NJ? My brother actually lives in Ohio and is caring for her until we can work out her moving in with me.