My mother is 88, has dementia, poor vision and is wheelchair bound and lately can’t even get up to go to the bathroom. She has no concept of time and calls me for help round the clock.
She has become so needy that I have very little time to do anything for myself. She is crying all the time and accusing me of throwing her away. This breaks my heart! She spends most of her time in bed because she is "more comfortable there”. She wants me to stay in the room with her.
I’m caught in the middle... My husband is ready for her to leave. What can I do?