Hi everyone, I need a little advice. I don’t know if you guys remember but my husband is putting in a new bathroom with a handicapped accessible shower. Yes, he has been working on it for awhile but it was so hard to get anything done going down for a day. He would work on the Lawnmower and cut grass and work on her car. So, he had a very short time to get to it, I did start cutting the grass for him but it was hard because I had the kitchen disaster to fix, groceries and laundry. I don’t know why but I am ready to scream every time I walk into her kitchen. The dishes are sitting in dirty water and even if she tried to clean them they weren’t clean. I asked her if she would consider having someone come in to tidy up the kitchen at least. She then did the I am such a burden. She really isn’t but I saw a lot of her physical challenges when we were together. I think sometimes she just doesn’t want to bother with them. I know how stupid dishes.