Grandma has a history of faking disability where there is none. Sometimes she will pretend she can't get up even though she can. I never know when it's real or fake. Today she's been doing that all day. She claims she twisted her ankle and when I touch it, she screams out in pain. But when I do it when she's napping or while she's eating, nothing. When she's eating she doesn't seem to notice until I ask then she screams "IT REALLY HURTS." and keeps on eating.
When I try to help her up, she pushes back at me with all her might. Frustrated I walk away. Sure enough, she's on her feet all by herself a couple of minutes later. Faking.
Tonight she pooped all over the bed. I could smell it. She's standing there just fine as I walk in. She sees me and starts limping saying it hurts too much to stand and starts sitting on the poop bed. I tell her not to do it. She curses at me and then sits in the poop. Over the next 3 hours, I break my back helping her up, I get pooped smeared all over me from her poop hands and I try to wash her hands off in a basin of water, she thinks it's a good time to splash me.
A couple of hours later, she screams like she does when she falls. She didn't but she says she can't get up to pee. I break my already broken back trying to get her up as she pushing back at me. I give up after half an hour. I walk away, throw away my gloves and come back. It can't have been more than 15 seconds. She's standing up on her own.
I'm still incredibly frustrated and my back is throbbing. I know grandma is going to scream for help like she fell all night long.
Why is grandma trying to kill me?