I am a 33 year old woman. I was primary 24/7 caregiver to my grandfather for many years until his death. Now, I am caring for my grandmother. I spent 90 days with her on a cot in a rehab. Now, she is home. I do it all, the bills, house maintenance, her personal care including emptying commodes and wiping her. Shes is often mean, screams til I'm in a state of confusion, and her children all refuse to help because she left her house to my mom and I. My mother refused to help me even on her date of discharge, she claims she's too mentally ill to handle it. It's so much for me to handle. Today I called the suicide prevention hotline. I'm trapped with no way out. Ive gained 60+ lbs due to the stress in just 3 short months. I feel totally drained and dead on the inside. Does anyone have a prayer or an idea or advice or has been through anything similar.