I have to decide if I will move my declining mom who currently is on a trach with vent at KECK hospital to a long term facility or choose hospice. I am the only one she has. The story how my mom got to this point is tragic. I haven't been able to work and have put my life on hold for over 2 months. I am sick to my stomach most of the time. I don't know how to not do all possible to keep her alive but not sure what the right thing to do is. This is making me sick. My mom also has dementia and can't talk now because of the trach. She and I never really discussed any of this so it is on my to make these decisions and I just don't know what I can live with.