Mom is now in the severe stage of Alzheimer's and getting violent and down right hateful at times. Her doctor already has had to put her on more meds. The extra dose contains her mean streak but it makes her out of her head in other ways such as starring into space, not hearing a word I say, and it's still not enough to keep her from trying to run away on occasion.
The next time she jerks away from me and tells me, "NO I am not going to get a shower, or put my clothes on, or I am not staying here I want to go home, etc....."
Anyway, my question is : Should I tell her if she continues to be down right ugly to me that I am going to put her somewhere?
Some may think that sounds mean but I believe the ONLY thing I can't handle is her being ungrateful & hateful. I just can't take it!
What do I do?