I was going to go for guardianship until we saw the cost. There would be no money left for their care, so I backed off. I was trying to save my parents money from my sister and her husband who have many times borrowed from mom and dad. many times, I have been called by family members about the state of my parents house. When I tried to do something, mom got angry and kicked me out. The sister who borrows lives in town and she said I should accept mom and dad where they are. I know if they were of sound mind they would tell me not to let this decline happen to them. I try to live up to what they wanted me to do when they asked me to become their POA. I believe my mom's paranoia and my sister's prompting brought on the revocation. I have surrendered and let go and let god, but now I am receiving nasty letters from my mother. my out of town sister is now siding with the in town sister which is a 180 degree turn and my brother is not talking to me. i get that no one wants to hear or see the truth but i was trying to follow the experts advice and get things in place as the disease progresses. because of this, i am now a pariah. what do you do when others think you are overreacting or handling things incorrectly? i felt like i was not only fighting the disease but i was also fighting family members who are in denial. i feel hopeless! i guess i shouldn't worry anymore as i am out of the picture.