My grandmother has 3 daughters and 10 grandkids in total. She has been living on her own for the past 14 years but as the year goes by, she has been diagnosed with lots of different illnesses that requires her to be on medication. She is suspected to have Dementia as well.
I have been my grandma's primary caregiver since I was 14 years old. I'm the one who keeps track of her medications and her appointments and the one who brings her out and the one who buys her meals.
None of her daughters care or even bother to do anything to help her. They push all the responsibility to me. I am currently working full time and my work requires me to OT very often which makes caring for my grandma very difficult. I'm also spending almost half of my salary on my grandma which is causing things to be quite stressful for me.
I've tried talking to my mom to get her to take responsibility but it seems useless. Does anybody has any good suggestions on getting my mom and relatives to all take responsibility and chip in to help?