They both are having issues mentally. Dad becomes frustrated, loses temper,thought; mom bouts of confusion & memory loss. They're both distraught. She's a socialite going out every possible moment. He feels she doesn't care about him. He's on oxygen 24/7 has CHF, emphysema, severe arthritis, diabetes. She COPD, arthritis, slight heart issue. He feels she cheats on him when out. She doesn't want to stay in. Last night I had call to run down cause they were punching each other. What to do? They argue trying to control other. Both abused as children.