Abusive Relationship
Information and advice for caregivers who are making long-term care decisions impacted by a physically or emotionally abusive relationship with their care recipient.
Abusive Relationship Articles
Saying “No” to Family Drama While Caregiving
Relationships are often strained when a serious illness and caregiving enter the picture. But, if your interactions with certain relatives are increasingly stressful and negative, it may be time to shut down family drama once and for all.
49 CommentsDetaching With Love: Setting Boundaries With Difficult Elderly Parents
Whether you're providing hands-on care or managing care decisions, setting boundaries with difficult elderly parents enables family caregivers to provide care while safeguarding their own mental health.
183 CommentsElders Who Abuse Their Family Caregivers
Caregivers struggle to maintain their own physical and mental health while providing care for loved ones who mistreat them. Learning to detach, set boundaries, seek respite care and respect your limits can help you cope with an elder’s abusive behavior.
399 CommentsHandling Controlling Elderly Parents
Are you caring for a senior who tries to control everything and everyone around them? Use these tips to cope with their overbearing behavior while maintaining your own physical and mental health.
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Abusive Relationship Questions
Is forgiving possible? Or even talking?
5 AnswersDaughterof1930 Answered 3 hours agoHow do you deal with a 89 year old mother who’s mean nasty and abusive but who also was a therapist and plays around that fact?
5 AnswersJustAnon Answered 4 hours agoHow could my mom get a mortgage on the house and then sell it without me?
11 AnswersJoAnn29 Replied Dec 24, 2025Mom is so verbally abusive. What can I do if her doctors or the county won't listen to me about her behavior?
10 AnswersJoAnn29 Answered Dec 24, 2025
Abusive Relationship Discussions
Hello, I am new here and not really sure what I am looking for. I guess I need to know I’m not alone.
10 CommentsGeaton777 Commented 3 hours agoThe Caregiver & Dysfunctional Families: How are you doing?
34,663 Commentsbundleofjoy Commented Jan 11, 2026Aggravation, guilt, exhaustion, please offer your advice.
27 CommentsTouchMatters Commented Dec 19, 2025My mom has been a miserable, nasty, and hateful person all her life. As a mother she has dominated every aspect of her children's life.
1,409 CommentsDanielle123 Commented Dec 3, 2025
Abusive Relationship Related Topics
- Burnout
- Alzheimer's & Dementia
- Violent Behavior
- Dementia Behaviors
- Cancer
- Cognitive Decline
- Signs of Dementia
- Caregiving
- Memory Loss
- Aging in Place
- Early Onset Alzheimer's
- Lewy Body Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Dementia Wandering
- Adult Day Care
- Severe Dementia
- Sundowner's Syndrome
- Mild Dementia
- Chemotherapy
- Area Agency on Aging



