Abusive Relationship
Information and advice for caregivers who are making long-term care decisions impacted by a physically or emotionally abusive relationship with their care recipient.
Abusive Relationship Articles
Saying “No” to Family Drama While Caregiving
Relationships are often strained when a serious illness and caregiving enter the picture. But, if your interactions with certain relatives are increasingly stressful and negative, it may be time to shut down family drama once and for all.
49 CommentsDetaching With Love: Setting Boundaries With Difficult Elderly Parents
Whether you're providing hands-on care or managing care decisions, setting boundaries with difficult elderly parents enables family caregivers to provide care while safeguarding their own mental health.
183 CommentsElders Who Abuse Their Family Caregivers
Caregivers struggle to maintain their own physical and mental health while providing care for loved ones who mistreat them. Learning to detach, set boundaries, seek respite care and respect your limits can help you cope with an elder’s abusive behavior.
399 CommentsHandling Controlling Elderly Parents
Are you caring for a senior who tries to control everything and everyone around them? Use these tips to cope with their overbearing behavior while maintaining your own physical and mental health.
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Abusive Relationship Questions
An unkind mother and I'm the only child.
14 AnswersHothouseflower Answered Feb 7, 202672 year old alcoholic mother in law is completely dependent on my fiancé.
24 Answerslealonnie1 Answered Jan 23, 2026Narcissistic elderly mother.
9 AnswersDaughterof1930 Answered Jan 23, 2026My brother, who is 88, has ahlzheimers and his wife has been having problems with him hitting her or throwing things at her. Advice?
15 Answerssouthernwave Answered Jan 14, 2026
Abusive Relationship Discussions
The Caregiver & Dysfunctional Families: How are you doing?
34,665 Commentsbundleofjoy Commented Jan 19, 2026Hello, I am new here and not really sure what I am looking for. I guess I need to know I’m not alone.
11 Commentsagilecaregivers Commented Jan 14, 2026Aggravation, guilt, exhaustion, please offer your advice.
27 CommentsTouchMatters Commented Dec 19, 2025My mom has been a miserable, nasty, and hateful person all her life. As a mother she has dominated every aspect of her children's life.
1,409 CommentsDanielle123 Commented Dec 3, 2025
Abusive Relationship Related Topics
- Burnout
- Alzheimer's & Dementia
- Violent Behavior
- Dementia Behaviors
- Cancer
- Cognitive Decline
- Signs of Dementia
- Caregiving
- Memory Loss
- Aging in Place
- Early Onset Alzheimer's
- Lewy Body Dementia
- Moderate Dementia
- Dementia Wandering
- Severe Dementia
- Sundowner's Syndrome
- Mild Dementia
- Adult Day Care
- Chemotherapy
- Area Agency on Aging



