I don't know where to go to find out my moms information as to who is the attorney who did the trust (or will, I'm not sure what she had done) and her current husband is not being very helpful. I spoke with my mom's best friend and asked her some questions and most of her answers were "I need to talk to your moms husband" and she is supposed to be the executor?? Isn't she supposed to have all this information and a copy of the will? I have a feeling that my mom's husband and possibly her best friend (the executor) are trying to do something to change the will or leave me out. I am my mom's only living heir and I was under the impression all of my mom's estate would go to me. I don't even know where my mom's ashes are, her husband has not called me at all since my mom passed away. Even at the Celebration of Life, he mentioned and thanked many people who were there for my mom and meant a lot to her and not one time did he even mention me. Yes, I was pretty upset and to top it off, his son, who is grown and married was the first one to speak and called MY mom, Mom and he lives in another state. So bottom line, I feel like I'm being messed with and I'm afraid I'm not going to get anything from my mom's life. She has important things from my Grandmother that I would like to pass down to my children and I feel like he is trying to take everything and then when he dies, all of my mom's stuff will go to his son. Where do I start? I live in California and I need to know the laws as far as who has more rights making any decisions, myself or her husband?