We have always told him that we would help take care of him as he got older, as he is a widower. He has Parkinsons, heart problems. He is mobile with walking sticks. He is super needy even tho he is capable of doing things himself. Hubby has a very stressful full time job and I work part-time from home. We are in our mid 50's and are empty nesters. I am freaking out! I'm enjoying our time with just us two, we raised our 3 kids, and I don't want our life to change. Pops has so much stuff that he refuses to part with, I don't know where we'd put it? He's mentioned that I should put my stuff in storage to accommodate his stuff. wth? I'm not physically or emotionally capable of taking care of him. How do we put our foot down without crushing him emotionally? I've had anxiety attacks stressing about it. Help!!!!!!