HELP! My Mother has a bedside commode that she uses often and seems very comfortable with - but lately she seems to like using the floor just as much. I put down bed pads (the heavy ones nursing homes use) as well as store bought ones underneath and she moves them. This evening I opened her nightstand drawer (full of cards, mementos, jewelry, etc.) to find that she had peed in a paper cup and everything was soaked. I am beside myself. What can I do? What am I doing wrong?