I need advise. My MIL moved in 8 months ago due to her financial situation and this has been a bad idea. We are trying to hang in there, but she is very dominating and unclean. If we try to discuss with her, she gets angry and pouts for days. I literally think she hates me!
She doesn't shower often enough and smells...(our house smells horrible!) She will not change diapers often enough so she leaks..We set up a nurse to come help bath, she refused..She has always lived alone for the most part, and she just does things her way...doesn't clean up after herself, helps herself to whatever, never washes her hands (I mean NEVER) and so I am constantly cleaning /disinfecting...She literally licks the tops of everything (like mayo, ketchup jelly) (unless it is hidden) ...rips the tops off everything in the pantry, leaves food out and fusses if I put it away...She shares a bathroom with my teenager boys, she doesn't flush, leaves her diapers in an empty trash can visible and her prep. H sitting on top...so this must be embarrassing when friends come over...(they are troupers and don't complain)...I am at my wits end! I DREAD going home after work. My husband is on the same page with me. We do not know what to do other than just let her invade! HELP!