My mom is 85. She keeps pretending to be sicker than she is. She also pretends that she can't speak well. Some would ask, "How do I know." It's easy . She gets sick every Saturday, when home health doesn't come. She does this to frustrate me and make me stay home. My sister nearby is a drunk. The one downtown doesn't care too much. The one in Alabama just sends texts telling me what to do. I'm seeing a counselor . For a while I just prayed for death to come to me. I still don't enjoy living. I lost my best sister in January. My mom faked a heart attack to avoid the funeral. Does anyone have any suggestions ? I live with her but I need to move out but don't want a guilty conscious when she dies, if she precedes me in death. Any thoughts ?