He is stubborn and very set in his ways and I'm afraid my marriage will end. He is getting dementia and significant memory loss. Part of me wants to care for him but I want my freedom to do things I like doing with my husbsnd. He says this now but the next day he'll forget he ever mentioned it. I know it sounds selfish, but I'm in my 50s and I'm very happy with my husband, we have no kids. Also my father is very negative about everything and very religious. Even though we have a close bond, he is getting more opinionated and judgemental as he's getting older. My mother is dead and I know he misses her and keeps saying he'll be dead soon.