It is getting more and more difficult to include my 91 father in special events. My son is getting married and while we would want him there I am not willing to give up my enjoyment of the day to cater to him. I could easily see him deciding after an hour or two that he wants to go home and expect me to leave (and miss) the reception. Is it possible to hire someone that could pick him up the day off and make sure he is dressed, bring him to the event and then return him home when he is ready? Who could I contact for such services? The last family wedding I went to and brought him, family treated me more like his caregiver than a family member. I was told he was getting tired and I should bring him home now. I remember going to graduation party for a relative of my husband. A neighbor was there and her son had graduated too that day. However she missed it because after getting her elderly mother there, the mother decided she was unhappy and wanted to go home NOW. Neighbor lady took her home and ended up missing seeing her son graduate. That story scared me to death. I did not invite my father to either of my kid's graduations after hearing that story. I could see him doing the same thing.