I just reached a point were I wish God would take her. My mom died at 65, mother in law is 89. I can't figure out why a good person dies at 65 and this woman who's always been thick headed but is worse now is still lingering on. I know I'm garbage right? But honestly her son does nothing for her. I had to get a friend in to bathe her because she won't shower. She won't listen to me and constantly tells me move out or mind my own business etc. What do I do? She usually sleeps late, like 3pm, but my days off she's up at 9am; it's like she's trying to p*ss me off on purpose.
Constantly in bathroom and asks the same questions over and over. We can't put her in home. We live in her house so we would lose a place to live. We moved in with her 4yrs ago because she couldn't take care of herself. Burners left on, bills not paid, almost a hoarder house, now she constantly wants food. I can't afford all she eats. What do I do? How do I not lash out?