He was ok with his being here for the first year or so while my father could still drive and get around a bit (he is 95). For the last year, our marriage has dwindled to just about nothing. My husband is extremely resentful of everything I do for my dad, which entails preparing him meals three time a day, washing his clothes about twice a month and picking up his prescriptions from time to time. His mind is very good, hearing not so good, and walking terrible as he has arthritis in both knees (bone on bone). My father eats toast and coffee every day for breakfast and my husband prefers a large meat, egg and toast breakfast! I have offered him toast and coffee and he gets insulted and storms out! (I have just retired within the last 6 months and I really didn’t think I would be adding my husband to my care list, as he has always been self sufficient by going out to eat. Anyway. He is jealous of anything I do for my father and told me to get out and take my father with me! I am at wits end. Do I consult a lawyer or a counselor? Please help I am so emotionally abused!