Caring for a Spouse
Caring for a Spouse : Advice, tips and support for family caregivers who are providing long term care for a spouse. Connect with, share, and learn from the tips and strategies of other experienced family caregivers who are coping with caring for an ill or elderly spouse.
Spouse Articles
My Wife’s Alzheimer's Transformed Our 40-Year Marriage
When my wife was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, we thought our life, as we knew it, was over. But we've encountered some unexpected blessings along the way.
4 CommentsCaregiving's Toll on Marriage: A Personal Story
Taking care of a husband with cancer while raising three kids younger than ten was a future I never expected when we first said "I do."
7 Comments4 Steps for Successful Long-Term Care Planning With a Spouse
As a couple, facing the financial and emotional requirements of long-term care is a challenge. Here are the four steps to successful long-term care planning with a spouse.
1 CommentSpousal Impoverishment: Medicaid Spend-Down Rules for Married Couples
Medicaid spend-down rules for married couples are different, depending on where each spouse lives. When one still lives at home, known as the “community spouse,” they can often keep more assets and income to avoid what is called spousal impoverishment.
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Spouse Questions
My wife was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s, our family keeps asking, what’s the plan? I’m not sure how to respond.
7 AnswersAlvaDeer Answered Dec 9, 2025How does ALF deal with abusive spouses?
10 AnswersDaughterByLaw Answered Dec 8, 2025I’m looking for advice from spouses living with partners who have Alzheimer’s. What should I expect?
11 AnswersPatriette Replied Dec 7, 2025My brother, who is 88, has ahlzheimers and his wife has been having problems with him hitting her or throwing things at her. Advice?
13 Answers97yroldmom Answered Dec 6, 2025
Spouse Discussions
Diagnosis: Feeling so lonely as my wife's caregiver.
12 Commentsgolden23 Commented Nov 28, 2025Growing old bitter, another yr passed and holidays around corner. MIL is beginning to treat my husband like he doesn't care.
4 CommentsJoAnn29 Commented Nov 16, 202584 year old mom won't leave house or go see family.
22 CommentsLakeErie Commented Nov 6, 2025I am now more of an overseer of my husband's health. When he does get sick, through his own fault, I have to care for him. I resent this.
14 CommentsBurntCaregiver Commented Nov 3, 2025
Spouse Related Topics
- Alzheimer's & Dementia
- Dementia Behaviors
- Cognitive Decline
- Memory Loss
- Violent Behavior
- Cancer
- Early Onset Alzheimer's
- Signs of Dementia
- Mild Dementia
- Lewy Body Dementia
- Sundowner's Syndrome
- Adult Day Care
- Dementia Wandering
- Moderate Dementia
- Severe Dementia
- Home Modification
- Aging in Place
- Area Agency on Aging
- Chemotherapy
- Prostate Cancer


