He is 86 gets meds thru VA. He was in Korean War during war time. War ended right before he was scheduled to go. He has 66000 net worth and received 2000/ month soc sec. He will be going to assisted living for two months while I get knee replacements. Pays approximately $4000/year for support, health insurance, etc. Dementia becoming worse. Wondering where money will come from once his assets are gone. Aid & Attendance?