I live in a Mobile Home Park, so everyone is pretty chummy. I mean we are all fairly nice to each other. I have one neighbor who lives with his mother and we have gotten along really well. His Dad recently passed from various health reasons and now his Mom has been diagnosed with Dementia and he cares for her. Some people on this site are aware that my Wife has had Dementia for around 7 years now and she now has incurable cancer and I have my wive's daughter and 26 year old Grandson staying here helping me out. The other night my neighbor came by the house and said he wanted to say hi to Helga. I let him in and right away he acted as if he might have had a little too much to drink. He was loud and just being a little aggressive. My wife is on hospice and she doesn't get better, only worse. But here he was with how are you doing Helga , here let me give you a hug, which I didn't approve of because of the Covid. He says I'm not making you jealous am I? And I said I quit getting jealous in my 20's, that was 50 years ago. He then says, she doesn't look good. You should be hugging her more, why don't you give her a hug. I didn't feel I needed to prove a thing to him and was starting to get a little agitated. He said he was leaving and turned and said bye Helga and told me, look at her you need to make her happy, and hug her more. I was just glad that he left. This all took me by surprise because I never saw this side of him. But the more I thought about it I wished I said something. Well the next day I had that chance because he bought us a cake, just because. I told him at the door that I thought that his actions the night before and the things he said were inappropriate. I told him I would never tell him how to take care of his mom, especially if I was in his house and with that he left. I thought I handled the situation ok and so did my in-laws. About an hour later he phoned and my daughter-in-law answered the phone, it was him and he said his mom and him had a long talk and they decided they're not coming over anymore. My D-in-law said well you know you were a little out of line the other.... and he hung up on her. It's been about a week now and still no word, but I like him and his Mom both. I was thinking of writing a letter. I don't know if it's worth the effort. I have a lot on my plate already. I'm just looking for idea's. Maybe I worry too much.