Three years ago my partner got cancer of the left tonsil. He is now cancer free, but the experience has totally changed him and our relationship. He has never fully recovered and is constantly having medical problems and going to doctors.
We used to have so much fun and now he depends on me to make most decisions. He has no energy to go anywhere and mostly watches TV when we are not together.
I am seriously grieving for our lost relationship and don't know how to handle it. I know I can't bring back what was, but it's so awful watching his slow decline.