My mother is a narcissist & is in her right state of mind. She had a stroke on 11/1/2017. Our relationship is & has always been strained! She abused me & my sister when we were growing up after she divorced my wonderful father. Then she blames everything on her 1 st husband & of course me & my sister. After her 2nd marriage, she was even more abusive. Mental, emotional & physical abuse is all I experienced from her. She's an alcoholic. I got her help for that & now she's doing better but she's blaming me for things I don't say or do. She has ahd me in her home for a year & half. Things came to a breaking point on Wednesday, 4/16/19 when I had the courage to finally stand up to her & ask her to won her wrong doing. She blamed me of course & physically tried strangling me. She called the Police & acted like she was a poor elderly woman who couldn't function without MY previous walker. The Police ofice, of course believed her over me. I didn't press charges cause I've been the executor of her estate for many, many years. I'm hoping she doesn't change it cuz I'm disabled & don't have an income. My so-called husband is the same as her. Our home is actually owned by her & my husband is financially irresponsible & has us in a lot of debt. We are behind in paying my abusive mother her house payments for 4 months now due to his spending habits & other expenses. This makes matters worse cause she could legally foreclose on the house & as egotistical as she is, as well as, she is financially well off. I wouldn't put anything past her!! She's never paid me 1 penny for helping her! It would've cost her a fortune if it wasn't for me doing everything for her! During her worst period of her stroke, she was drinking heavily, fell 30 + times; I quit counting picking her up after 30 times & always did my best to help her up with a gait belt. Even her own grandson has helped her I'm 5', & maybe 75 lbs. She's 5'4 & is at least 130lbs. I have a whole in my off the floor many times! I have a whole in my abdomen which was going to be surgically corrected last April but she fell & broke her shoulder in April last year. Then in September 2017, she fell & broke her Ulner bone. So, Home Health Care has been in her home 4 times in 1 year. She went almost 4 times to the Day Institute to get therapy 3 days a week 3 times in the last year. I hand fed her & treated her better than she would've been treated if I had placed her in a nursing home or assisted living. She refused going to either of those places due to her drinking. She's an alcoholic. I finally got her into alcohol treatment & now she takes Seroquel to help her sleep. It doesn't matter cuz she's still up at all hours of the night just like she was when she was drinking. She set her Villa on fire in February. She went to the hospital due to her blood pressure while I stayed back & took care of all the logistics with her homeowner insurance company. things are still not settled with them. It was heavy smoke damage. There were over $1000.00 of items they stole from me but I don't think I'll ever see getting paid back for that. Also, I'm now stuck with an ER bill I can't afford & she said she'd pay. Not anymore! Furthermore, she insisted I got checked in the ER. I told her no, I just want to get us to the hotel & get you settled in & get some sleep. Brought her breakfast every morning & dinner every night. She never went hungry. I did & still do. When I was able to eat in her home, she now holds it against me & also states that she gave me a roof over my head & a place to sleep & shower. Huh? How do you take care of someone 24/7 365 without living with them? I don't have a place to live or go to. My sister is a drug addict. My father doesn't want to have anyone in his home. He's 80 years old & finally has some peace of mind so I understand why he won't let me live with him. I'm at a loss!! I gave of up 3 surgeries for her since it was botched in 2015. I don't know what to do. Homeless I guess.