Such as age difference between the older siblings is two years apart and of the male gender then 8 yrs later a girl. Boys were taught to provide for a family and shown to be the bread winner decision makers. And women ware homemakers. I was spoiled rotten being the baby and only girl. Mom did all the cooking and cleaning, household things never allowing anyone else to do anything in her house for themselves even the girl. Paid for car insurance/licensing and paid for gas, tickets, all past to almost present debts... you name it til in late 40's when older brothers stepped in and decided sister was lazy and just trying to get money. Basically a free ride, not seeing she wasn't really shown or taught to do for herself and now just expected to be able to be self sufficient. Seems to still be put down for any and all attempts to show desire to earn it and ease into being self supporting. I missed a lot of valuable time being the outsider now 50 something's with living skills and maturity of a 20-25 yr old. Wanting to continue growing and learning, despite the handicap. Still being treated like a ten yr old spoiled brat. Givin no respect or validity. Any suggestions????