Regarding a durable power of attorney, does it become functional immediately at the signing or does the person have to become ill before it goes into effect? Siblings and signer were all at the signing, but the info escapes me now, a few years later. We can only use POA jointly, never separately. I have posted before and now realize a POA exists and a copy is right here with me. Just didn't realize it. Thank you to all who help on here.
Read through the POA to see what are the parameters of the document. If need be, Google legal terms or ask a lawyer to explain the statements made in the document.
Other POA are part of a will and are known as "springing POA" in some cases, meaning they come into effect only WHEN and IF certain things exist and are done (such usually require two doctors examinations and letters.
What I have learned is it is very difficult and time consuming to transition the affairs of a fading senior into safe hands. We are lucky with small family that all live nearby.
I have also learned that when the time comes I need to find a new Trust Lawyer. Of the two she had, one retired and one passed away. As fast as guidelines change I gather trusts should be periodically reviewed. But, who has the time or $$$ when also being a caregiver?
We are doing the best we can as the years roll on, the medical conditions change and society seems way too volatile.
I have his medical POA also. Staff always ask him first but usually also talk to me to make sure. Again he gets confused.
If immediate, if Mom can still make decisions, then you can't step in. With my Mom and I, she asked me to help her with her banking, etc. Having immediate POA meant I could do it with no one questioning it.
The POA will also list those people who can use it.
The financial POAs were also immediate but didn't have the "or unavailable" clause. Banks were far more picky about the financial POA, and required an additional affidavit confirming the POA was still current.
The other kind of power of attorney is for health care. In Wisconsin, for a health-care POA to go into effect, two health-care professionals (usually two physicians or one physician and one other health-care professional) must attest that the person has incapacity to make decisions for themself.
My mom's health is declining. She has some symptoms of dementia but she is considered capable of making her own decisions when she is conscious. The assisted-living staff and the hospice staff always ask her first what her preferences are for health care. That is, it is assumed that she has capacity to make those decisions. The times when Mom hasn't seemed to be capable of making a decision (e.g., unresponsive for several hours), my sister, who is the agent on the POA, is asked to decide.
Even if you're the durable POA, you can't act without their permission unless:
The POA is active and the elder consents, or
They are legally declared incapacitated.
Read the PoA document to see if it makes any exceptions to their home state's laws about this.