My husband is 20% disabled veteran. He requested to be placed in a VA nursing home while he was admitted in our local hospital. He receives monthly military retirement pay and monthly social security retirement pay and 20% VA disability pay. We have been married for nearly 28 years and we are, or should I say I am, guardian of 2 small grandchildren. Since my husband was released from prison in March of 2016 he has refused to support us now that he is in a VA nursing home. What am I authorized for support? Who do I contact, and how do I gain access to any of his funds so I can continue to survive and raise and support our 2 small grandchildren?