I spent the last two years cleaning my mother's filthy house with 50 years of hoarding. I also updated it, sold it at great pains to myself and found her a place to live. Two years of 10-15 hours a day unpaid slavery and endless emotional abuse from her. I'd come across the country to help her after I lost my job and divorced. With all I did I lost my health. I never told her I was coming forever, but she kept insisting I stay to take care of her. When I left a couple months ago when the abuse was too much, she refused to send any of my mail and won't let me get the belongings I left there. How can I get them when the spiteful witch won't let me. (Yes, I have siblings who refused to help me, though they are much better off and all set for life and lived within hours of her whereas I was across the country. She always favored them though -and badmouthed me to them all while I was slaving on her house. None of them will do anything to help me.) TMI, sorry. Do I have to call the police to intervene? I'm afraid because she'll stop at nothing to destroy me for not staying to help her. (ps I'm a small old woman unlike her).