My 78 year old grandmother is not physically abusive but she has a “type A” personality. She would come over to my house (she lives next door) and scream at me telling me to get up from bed. She would also scream at me that I am a bad mother to my toddler and that she will call CPS so that my son will be taken away from me and will go to an orphanage. She also constantly asks me if I am taking my anxiety medications and threatens that if I am not she will make sure I will be locked up in a psychiatric ward for the rest of my life. She says all these things as well as screaming at me that my kid NEEDS A NEW DIAPER because once or twice she came over and he took his own diaper off. My son is potty training and does not always require a diaper he is learning to use the toilet. You get the point, she is extremely verbally abusive and threatens me more than several times a week for a half hour or more at a time.
I don’t let her in the house my husband let’s her in.
Well today was my last straw. I asked her politely to leave MANY times, but today I called the cops on her. The cops told me they would try to talk to her and tell her to not go to my house anymore. After they talk to me and her they tell me the only way to get her to leave me and my family alone is to get a restraining order. Or just not let her in the house.
I will also add this to my story, my grandfather I am estranged from also currently lives with her. I am estranged from him because he broke my wrist when I was 20 years old. He broke my wrist because “I was laughing too loudly at a YouTube video.” I quit university because I was angry and using a pen or computer was painful. My grandma and mom told me to shut the f up about the whole broken wrist and not press charges.
My family is obviously full of narcissist abusers.
Supposedly my grandparents are moving two hours away to their vacation home next year.
What I am really asking for here is just some advice. And also I need to get this off my chest. Thank you any constructive advice is appreciated.