My mother lives in her own home but people keep moving in with her . She has 23 acres she owns and a 2 bedroom house. She is financially set but my brother and his daughter with 3 kids moved in with her and take advantage of her financially, mentally and physically. I am the youngest of three kids. I live across the road from her. She is 83 years old. She is growing angrier everyday but won’t kick them out. Now her grandson who is on heavy drugs wants to move out here too. All the land is in Mama’s name, we all lived on the property for 30 years. I am trying to protect her but she keeps giving her money away to the grandkids who won’t work and take care of themselves. She is left all day with 3 kids and they are verbally abusive To her. She is physical in bad shape. Hard for her to get around. I take care of her appointments, bills and medications. But she gets loans for her grandkids and one son. They are putting her in a financial pickle. I am living paycheck to paycheck on disability.
What should I do without hurting her feelings? She won’t listen to me. If I say don’t get another loan then she wants to know where to sign. Please help me.