I confronted my elderly mother about saying I should follow what her GP says. She accused me of 'projecting' on to her problems that don't exist.

No, never been accused of that, but it seems obvious that your Mother doesn't believe (or want to believe) what the GP has diagnosed. Good luck... sounds like a "non-compliant" patient. Not funny, I know.
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