Once again FIL fell and is in nursing home until he can leave which they doubt will ever happen . They allowed mil to stay in the room with him as she has bad dementia and can not be alone. Now that we have them there the plan is to try to keep them there. Medicade is working on their behalf to get them covered. The problem is that we still do not have POA. This is one stubborn couple and they refuse help. Anyway medic aide needs financial info so my husband went into their house to look for paperwork. They have been issued a notice of intent to foreclose ( unopened) which medic aide says is actually a good thing. We found MIL bank account notice and it shows that someone has been withdrawing $200 every two to three days for the last month. The bank says they can't check to see if it's fraud unless we have POA. My husband explained the situation to his dad but he doesn't seem to care. I think he's given up on it all. How long will it take to get POA set up if they refuse to sign papers?