I've lived near my grandparents ever since leaving college and try my hardest to be available when they are in need as well as spend time with them. This has increased over the years and they are at a point that if I'm not around they would have difficulties. I'm wanting to establish them with an in-home care service so I'm able to find work in a different state. It's very difficult to get my parents and uncles to be on the same page or take initiative. It feels like my family is most concerned with maintaining their relationships while it seems I'm more concerned with their health and safety. At this point, I find myself spending more time with them than accomplishing my goals and I'm worried this will make me resent my family. I've spoken to them about helping with this and conversations have been had but those are easily forgotten and the brunt of the situation is on me.