My dad moved in with us 2.5 years ago. My sister told me not to take him in and I am finding that she was so very right. Now how do I get out of it without being the horrible daughter. He is 85 and going blind and deaf but still sharp mentally. He is also really selfish and cheap.
We both work full time. I am currently home sick with pneumonia from exhaustion and depressed from taking care of him. He needs to move to assisted living for him and for me (and my husband who is fed up). My siblings give limited help to none at all.
How do I get him to pay $4,000 a month for assisted living when he pays us $1,000 a month for assisted living at my house. He has the money for about 40 months aka the inheritance. I am the executor of his will but he controls all of his money and getting power of attorney from him would probably be impossible at this stage. He cannot live on his own anymore although I doubt he would believe it.
I love my father but just cannot take it anymore. He is wrecking my house and the life that I have built.