I'm currently renting my father's home from him while we work on renovations and clearing out 30 years of possessions. It became unsafe for him when he started tripping over the doorways which are also not wide enough for his walker, especially in the bathroom. I moved him to an apartment in a retirement community that includes two meals a day plus once a week housekeeping, and all utilities, not far from his home so he could still use the same bank, grocery, dry cleaners, etc because he still drives. Whenever he runs errands, he insists on driving by the house even though it's not really on his way. Today I get a phone call from him asking why are you home? I moved here to be closer to him, help take care of him when he's not well and just in general being more available to help. My mother died 5 years ago. I left a beautiful home and flourishing career to relocate. I'm 57 years old and have a regular boyfriend. I haven't checked in with him for about 40 years! Can I get some privacy please?