I've written questions before about my husbands parents. Mother in law has un diagnosed mental illness or dementia. She is very agressive to father in law but he won't admit it and won't force her to get help. They are behind on mortgage and refuse to allow a realestate agent do an assessment. They refused my husband POA. I called adult protective services and unless she hits him and he calls for help they can't do anything but send a social worker to do a check. She is refused entry. We are refused entry. Police can't force mil to get help. Should we just let them be and take a chance at them dying in the house alone? They are the most frustrating people ever. Why do old people have so many rights?