I have young children and one is special needs with epilepsy. Nothing matters to them. I had the flu once and they still wanted me to take her for the weekend. There is no talking with them or trying to come to an agreement. I'm willing to help but we can never agree. They are now going to take me to court and it will be put under 'visitation rights' just like in a divorce case with children. I will be forced to take care of my mom on the weekends. There are 2 other siblings involved but there reasons for not taking my mom on the weekends are legit in their eyes and my reasons are not. Any advice for when we go to court? My mom has made her rounds with all siblings and is ready for nursing home but it won't be for a while because the sister you has her now took her off the nursing home waiting list and there are some small issues holding it up for title 19. My mom wanted me as the conservator of person and estate but they wouldn't allow it. My brother was forced to do it and he is the one now taking me to court to help out during the weekends. He believe the court can and will legally make me do it. (visitation rights). I probably won't be able to see her if I don't help out. Any advise?