I do not mean it that way but, yesterday was bad. Dad must have come in our area over 20 times for I do not know what. Lots was stupid little things. He can talk to his son but when he does it over and over in one day. It drives me crazy. Sometimes it feels he treats his son stupid with details over and over again. We ask him to write things down when he gets these questions in his head, but he will not listen. We have set down to make him understand we have boundaries, but he constantly breaks them. When we have these talks he pouts in his room for a week. He does not understand we need our own time, he claims he has important things to say to his son. After each time I asked my husband was it important he says no.
All the sudden he's been asking about his pills and why he is taking it, we explain why, but no he becomes the doctor for himself.
He will not listen to himself or us, claims to forget all the time.
You might think he's only been with us a couple months, I would tell you no way, out of our 47 yrs. together he been with us over 40 years.
So think again about you complaints, but my advise to anyone taking in a parent talk about it and make it a short time and tell them that.
You as a couple are not nurses or doctors.